From the Bottom to Her Soft Landing.

Jun 25, 2025

Welcome to my corner of the internet where healing is raw, real, and rooted in truth. I created this community to hold space for real heartbreak grief with raw truths.

Hey Sis, I’m Ashley — the founder of Her Soft Landing.

I built this space out of desperation. Not theory. I needed language that spoke to my pain after my divorce. Everything was light, fluffy and move on lingo. Nothing touched the surface of unbearable agony, sorrow or grief. I felt like I was spiraling and like there was something wrong with me.

Questions cycled, like how did she heal so fast? How can she be friends with her ex? How could they not feel this deep? I never got the answers just redirection to minimize my pain, and give it to Jesus. They would say just forgive and forget.

That wasn’t enough for me. I didn’t know where to begin, let alone how. I had to create journals, pages, templates for my own personal pain. I used every source that was digital to create pieces that comforted me.

Not fluff. But from real pain, real tears, and a real need for healing that didn’t sound like a Pinterest quote.

I’ve been through it: the grief of divorce, the betrayal I didn’t see coming, and the kind of heartbreak that doesn’t just break your heart it shakes your identity. You know the right thing was to divorce yet why did he initiate it when he said he loved me? What about the kids? Our dreams and our future?

The depth of that reality broke me. The only way out was through. That’s the part NOONE talks about. It was in my grief I birthed Her Soft Landing. This community has become a saving grace for other hurting women going through divorce and breakups. Utilizing the same tools, cheat sheets and guides I created for myself are now made available in collections for others to use. I’m honored the feedback has been incredible!

When I went looking for tools to help me navigate it all, everything I found was either too shallow, too soft, or didn’t speak to my real life. I needed something more something for the woman who still had to clock in at work, show up for her babies, and try to piece herself back together without a guide.

So I made one.

Her Soft Landing is for the woman rebuilding her life after betrayal, heartbreak, grief, and exhaustion. It’s not just a newsletter. It’s a soft but solid place to land.

Each post I share will be practical, faith-led, and emotionally intelligent. You’ll find healing guides, motherhood truth bombs, divorce recovery tools, breakup wisdom, and even sensory care for when your nervous system is tapped OUT.

I don’t write from a pedestal. I write from the thick of it.

If you’re here, that means you’re not done. You’re ready to come back to yourself. You’re ready to heal and do the work to go through the pain.